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Reviews
Sorted by transparency score: five facts checked on each brand's own pages, averaged. Commissions never change the order.
By The Fling Compass editorial team · Last checked
#1Mainstream dating app
Mainstream swipe app with Plus, Gold and Platinum tiers
Best for: People who want the widest mainstream pool and are open to casual or serious dating
Avoid if: You want a site built only for casual or open relationships
Prices: check the current price on their site.
#2Casual dating site
UK-run casual dating site and app with liveness checks
Best for: UK adults who want a straightforward casual site with free ways to show interest
Avoid if: You want to see prices before creating an account
Prices: check the current price on their site.
#3For people in relationships
Discreet dating site with long notice periods to cancel
Best for: Attached adults who want a site built for discretion and will read the terms
Avoid if: You want to cancel a few days before renewal: notice periods are 14 or 28 days
Prices: check the current price on their site.
#4Open-minded community
Long-standing community for swingers and open couples
Best for: Couples and singles who already know the lifestyle and want events and clubs as well as profiles
Avoid if: You want to compare prices before joining
Prices: check the current price on their site.
#5Casual dating site
Large, long-running adult social network with paid upgrades
Best for: Adults who want a large, busy adult social site rather than a simple dating app
Avoid if: You want to see the full price list before you hand over an email address
Prices: check the current price on their site.
#6Casual dating site
Casual dating site with short trials that roll into monthly plans
Best for: Adults who want a casual-only site and are happy to manage a subscription closely
Avoid if: You want to see prices before creating an account
Prices: check the current price on their site.
#7For people in relationships
UK married dating site with prices published in its FAQ
Best for: Attached adults in the UK or Ireland who want a site built for that situation
Avoid if: You want to stop renewal yourself with one click in your account
#8Open-minded community
App for open-minded singles and couples, billed via app stores
Best for: Singles and couples exploring non-monogamy or kink in a mainstream-feeling app
Avoid if: You want prices before downloading
Prices: check the current price on their site.
#9Casual dating site
Casual dating site and app sold on 3, 6 and 12 month plans
Best for: Adults looking for casual dating who are happy with a longer upfront commitment
Avoid if: You want a month-to-month plan: the listed packages start at 3 months
Prices: check the current price on their site.
#10For people in relationships
Discreet dating brand built around privacy tools
Best for: Adults who want a service built specifically around discretion
Avoid if: You are not comfortable with a service designed for people already in relationships
Prices: check the current price on their site.
| Site | Type | Score | Prices public | Cancel online | App |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| Tinder | Mainstream dating app | 8.6 | No | Yes | Yes |
| SaucyDates | Casual dating site | 8.6 | No | Yes | Yes |
| Victoria Milan | For people in relationships | 8.3 | No | Yes | Yes |
| SDC | Open-minded community | 8.3 | No | Yes | Yes |
| AdultFriendFinder | Casual dating site | 7.7 | No | Yes | Not confirmed |
| BeNaughty | Casual dating site | 7.7 | No | Yes | Not confirmed |
| Illicit Encounters | For people in relationships | 7.7 | Yes | No | Not confirmed |
| Feeld | Open-minded community | 7.2 | No | No | Yes |
| C-Date | Casual dating site | – | Not confirmed | Yes | Yes |
| Ashley Madison | For people in relationships | – | Not confirmed | Not confirmed | Yes |