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The UK first-date safety checklist
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Questions people ask
What is 'Ask for Angela'?
A UK safety scheme used in many bars and venues: if you feel unsafe on a date, ask staff for 'Angela' and they will help you leave discreetly. If a venue doesn't use it, just tell the staff you need help.
Should I share my location with a friend?
Yes, for the evening. Most phones let you share your live location for a set time with one person, then it stops on its own.
What if someone asks me for money?
Stop replying. Requests for money, gift cards or crypto from someone you haven't met are the most common sign of a romance scam. Report the profile to the site.